Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Break Up

Merriam-Webster defined “break up” as ceasing to exist as a unified whole or to end a romance. But how does one deal with break up?



Ending a relationship is just soo painful. You can’t eat, you can’t sleep, you can’t think right. It’s rocking every core of your being. In short, break up SUCKS!

But no matter how bad the feeling is, there’s one thing that we have to realize: Break up happens for a reason…no matter how hard you try to deny it, deep down inside, you know what that reason is. There’s no quick remedy for the pain that you’re feeling now, but like all wounds, you will heal in time.

Instead of punishing yourself by thinking of all the reasons why you should go on and try to fix the relationship, sometimes, you just have to accept the fact that there are some things that can no longer be fixed. Acceptance, I think, is the key to deal with break up. Just because your relationship is broken, it doesn’t necessarily mean you are. You must keep in mind that if this relationship did not work, then you’re better off… there are greater possibilities ahead and you’re headed to someone that is perfect for you and worthy of the beauty that you have.

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